Life Before You promotional artwork: a headless woman in a crumbled red dress stands in a field. The dress hangs on a wooden hanger. Text reads: 'Life Before You. A new play by Eva Hudson. Directed by Roisin McCay-Hines'.
A production shot of Life Before You, where a young daughter wearing overalls is sitting on the floor in front of a table and stool in a panic, and her mother, wearing all black, is holding her shoulders
Photo credit: Edward J Felton
A mother and daughter are hugging jumping in joy. The daughter is holding a piece of paper in her right hand.
Photo credit: Edward J Felton

Life Before You

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“I can’t care for you when you’re like this — can’t love you when you’re like this — you need to be… you need to be better.”

Gráinne leaves Ardoyne, Belfast, for England, chasing the promise of a better life for her daughter. She scrubs, she bleaches, she sacrifices — and piece by piece, she begins to disappear.

Eimear grows up surrounded by privilege, stepping through doors her mother could never open. But with every step forward, she drifts further away — into another class, another name, another life.

As they clash over diverging ideas of womanhood, what surfaces is complex and turbulent, straining their relationships — with themselves and with each other — to breaking point.

Life Before You, a fierce and unflinching new play by Eva Hudson and directed by Roisin McCay-Hines, lays bare the fault lines between mothers and daughters. Addressing women’s healthcare, class, survival, and the erasure of aging women, it asks: what do we pass on, and how do we escape the lives written for us?

Praise for previous work from the writer and director:

★★★★★
“Hudson’s writing had me second guessing everything I thought I knew going into the play… Incredible scriptwriting from her, a deeply mesmerising watch.”
Broadway World on 855-For-Truth

★★★★★
“A masterclass in storytelling”
North West End on Cold, Dark Matters

★★★★★
“A triumph”
StageTalk Magazine on The Fall of the House of Usher

Ages 12+ (this performance contains strong language and themes of medical trauma)

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